Congenital limb differences and my appearance
You may also be visiting this page because you have a congenital limb difference yourself and are struggling with the impacts on your appearance. Or maybe you’re a parent or carer whose baby or child has a congenital limb difference. If so, you may be wondering what the impacts might be as they grow up with a condition that affects the way they look.
Congenital limb differences are wide-ranging and can affect your appearance in various ways. This may be for life or it may just be during the early years before disappearing with age or treatment. Others can become more prominent as a child develops. Your doctor will provide information about what to expect – and in many cases you will find that there are specialist organisations offering support to people affect by your, or your child’s, condition.
At times, living with a visible difference can be challenging. You may be conscious of people looking at you or your child. Sometimes, people may make comments or ask questions. School can sometimes be difficult for children with a visible difference and as a parent or carer you may worry about bullying.
What support can we offer?
There is plenty of support available if you are affected by a visible difference – whether you have one yourself or have a child with a visible difference.
Here at Changing Faces, we offer confidential, one-to-one social, emotional and psychological support through our counselling and wellbeing support service, which is available to adults, young people and children living with a visible difference. Our wellbeing practitioners are specially trained to work with you over a number of sessions, giving you a space to talk about what’s on your mind.
We also offer online workshops for children and young people and their parents. These workshops provide an opportunity for your family to talk to others affected by visible differences and learn tools and techniques for managing the challenges you may experience.
Our self-help guides cover a wide range of topics and are available freely on our website. They cover all aspects of life – from school and work to mental health, confidence and relationships. As well as resources for adults with visible differences, we have guides specifically designed for parents as well as a series for children and young people.
There are a number of other ways we can support people with congenital limb differences here at Changing Faces:
- Online Community: An online forum moderated by Changing Faces staff, where you can talk to others with visible differences.
- Real stories: Read stories by other people living with limb differences.
If you’re interested in accessing our services, please contact our Support and Information Line. As well as connecting you to our services, our team can offer support calls for you to talk about the impacts of a visible difference on your life.