Kirpal talks about raising awareness and encouraging others to embrace difference

Kirpal’s story: ‘What makes you different, makes you beautiful’

Kirpal has vitiligo, a long-term condition where pale white patches develop on the skin.A photo of Kirpal, who has a skin condition called vitiligo

For the first time, I had spoken up about my anxiety and was pleasantly surprised to receive kindness, empathy and support from my peers.

I was ten years old when I first noticed my skin condition, vitiligo. I had no idea what it was. At first, I thought it was the one of many grazes I got when I was playing football at school in the playground, so I just carried on being a ten year old.

The battles began in the years to come. I found it hard to cope with the mental and emotional effects of having a condition that made me look different. I started to become an introvert, not going out as I was worried what people would do, say and, worst of all, when they would stare. I was skipping social gatherings and parties, wearing gloves in summer and sunglasses indoors – anything that would make me feel comfortable.

I really hated my skin, had zero confidence and often wished I could be “normal”. The toughest moment of my life to date was losing my father in 2012. After he passed away, my vitiligo became very aggressive and took over 40-50% of my face and body.

I am 35 years old now and I have been through what can only be described as a rollercoaster journey – from not knowing what vitiligo was, to trying every medicine I could find and now embracing and accepting that I look different.

I began to do some volunteering for a non-profit charity I came across, The Vitiligo Society. This included modelling in a photoshoot to launch their new website. I’d had no experience at all – but was surprised to find I felt so comfortable around cameras with my newly-found confidence. Since then, I was astounded to be offered an external modelling contract.

I work at Sky full-time, an organisation which has a huge emphasis on celebrating diversity and inclusion. Their ethos, and being surrounded by the most amazing colleagues, has really helped me.

It wasn’t until I attended an annual sports day event at work that I had to really confront my anxiety around vitiligo. Most of my peers would be comfortably dressed in shorts and t-shirts, as we were in the middle of a big heatwave in the summer. I, on the other hand, felt that familiar panic of having to expose my skin and wanting to cover up.

A photo of Kirpal, who has a skin condition called vitiligo

At this point, despite never having proactively spoken out about skin condition before, I decided to send an email round to my colleagues to let them know how I felt. I was taken aback by just how supportive their responses were.

For the first time, I had spoken up about my anxiety and was pleasantly surprised to receive kindness, empathy and support from my peers. I actually felt fine about wearing the same clothes as everyone else. Unexpectedly, this was the start of a new, empowering journey for me.

I really want to help others wherever I can and raise awareness of my condition and what life can be like with a visible difference. There could be so much more representation of people with vitiligo, as well as marks, scars and other conditions in society and culture. It would help raise awareness and make it easier for people to embrace differences as simply part of the world we live in.

Charities like Changing Faces are working tirelessly to support people with a visible difference, and I’d like to thank them for giving me a platform to share my story. If anything, I hope my story helps give you some confidence or inspiration to help overcome the challenges you might be facing. What is most important to take away is that it does not matter what colour your skin is, how your skin looks or even feels – always remember what makes you different, makes you beautiful.

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